What does it mean to be gifted?

Being "gifted" means having exceptional abilities or talents that are significantly above average for your age group. Gifted individuals show advanced skills in one or more areas like academics, creativity, leadership, or specific talents. It's important to understand that giftedness comes in many forms and isn't just about getting good grades or having a high IQ.

Different Types of Giftedness

Intellectual Giftedness involves advanced reasoning, problem-solving, and learning abilities. These students might read early, ask complex questions, understand difficult concepts quickly, or show exceptional memory skills.

Creative Giftedness shows up as original thinking, artistic talent, or innovative problem-solving. Creative gifted individuals might be excellent writers, artists, musicians, or come up with unique solutions to everyday problems.

Academic Giftedness means excelling in specific school subjects like math, science, language arts, or social studies. A student might be gifted in one area while being average in others.

Leadership Giftedness involves natural abilities to organize, motivate, and guide others. These individuals often become student leaders, start clubs, or naturally take charge in group situations.

Specific Talent Areas can include exceptional abilities in sports, music, art, drama, or other specialized skills that go far beyond what's typical for their age.

How Giftedness is Identified in schools:

Schools and psychologists use various methods to identify gifted students:

IQ Tests measure intellectual abilities, with standard scores typically above 130 considered in the gifted range, though this varies by program.

Achievement Tests show how well someone performs in academic subjects compared to their peers.

Teacher and Parent Observations help identify students who show advanced thinking, creativity, or exceptional talents that tests might miss.

Portfolios and Performance demonstrate abilities through actual work, projects, or performances in specific areas.

Characteristics of Gifted Individuals

While every gifted person is unique, some common traits include:

Learning Characteristics:

  • Learn new information quickly and easily

  • Remember details from a long time ago

  • Make connections between different ideas

  • Prefer complex and challenging tasks

  • May become bored with repetitive work

Thinking Patterns:

  • Ask lots of detailed questions

  • Think about problems in unique ways

  • Enjoy abstract concepts and theoretical ideas

  • Notice patterns others might miss

  • Have advanced vocabulary and communication skills

Social and Emotional Traits:

  • May feel different from peers

  • Often have strong sense of fairness and justice

  • Might be perfectionists

  • Can be very sensitive to criticism or emotions

  • Often mature emotionally at different rates than intellectually

Common Myths About Giftedness

Myth: Gifted students will succeed no matter what Reality: Gifted students need appropriate challenges and support to reach their potential.

Myth: All gifted students get excellent grades Reality: Some gifted students underachieve due to boredom, perfectionism, or learning differences.

Myth: Gifted students are gifted in everything Reality: Many are gifted in specific areas while being average or even struggling in others.

Myth: Gifted students don't need help Reality: They often need specialized programs, emotional support, and academic challenges.

Myth: Giftedness is just about being smart Reality: Giftedness includes creativity, leadership, specific talents, and various types of intelligence.

Challenges Gifted Students Face

Academic Challenges:

  • Boredom with grade-level work

  • Lack of appropriate challenges

  • Perfectionism leading to anxiety

  • Difficulty with subjects that don't come naturally

Social Challenges:

  • Feeling different from classmates

  • Difficulty finding peers with similar interests

  • Being seen as "the smart kid" rather than as a whole person

  • Pressure to always excel

Emotional Challenges:

  • High expectations from others and themselves

  • Sensitivity to world problems and injustices

  • Feeling overwhelmed by their own abilities

  • Imposter syndrome or self-doubt

Supporting Gifted Individuals

In School:

  • Acceleration (skipping grades or subjects)

  • Enrichment programs with advanced content

  • Pull-out programs for gifted students

  • Independent study projects

  • Mentorship opportunities

At Home:

  • Encouraging interests and passions

  • Providing challenging books and materials

  • Supporting emotional needs

  • Helping develop coping strategies for perfectionism

  • Celebrating effort, not just results

Social Support:

  • Connecting with other gifted individuals

  • Joining clubs or groups with similar interests

  • Developing friendships based on shared passions

  • Learning to relate to people with different abilities

The Importance of Balance

Being gifted doesn't mean someone has to be exceptional at everything or pursue only advanced activities. Like all people, gifted individuals benefit from:

  • Time to just be kids and have fun

  • Opportunities to fail and learn from mistakes

  • Development of social and emotional skills

  • Pursuit of interests for joy, not just achievement

  • Understanding that their worth isn't tied to their abilities

Looking Forward

Giftedness is a lifelong trait that can be both a gift and a responsibility. With proper support, understanding, and opportunities, gifted individuals can use their abilities to make meaningful contributions to their communities and pursue fulfilling lives. The goal isn't to create pressure or unrealistic expectations, but to help gifted people develop their potential while maintaining their well-being and happiness.

Remember, everyone has unique strengths and talents. Being gifted is just one way that human potential can be expressed, and every person deserves support to reach their own personal best.